Why dont l love myself and accept how lam?

I know how you feel. I often put myself down as well and sometimes need to be reminded I have friends and family out there that like/love me and that I shouldn't put myself down because a girlfriend will come in due time. BTW I just turned 22 two weeks ago and I don't drive either. It's not because I can't or don't want to drive but the job market is crap at the moment and I'm trying so hard to find a job. It sucks because it seems like without a job you can't have a car and without a car it's harder to find a job. I know how you feel, just hang in there and do things you love. Spend more time with your friends and keep your mind off not having a boyfriend, it's not the end of the world. If you need anyone to talk to you could always email me if you want.